- Our Consultant Family Lawyer Helen Boynton is offering a free guide to local families who are divorcing or separating
- The “Parenting Through Separation Guide” is written by family professionals and advises parents how to put their children first during a separation
- The guide is being launched during Good Divorce Week, 29 Nov – 3 Dec, and is run by national family justice organisation Resolution
- This year the focus of Good Divorce Week is parenting through separation
Helen joins with thousands of family professionals in supporting this guide, which can be accessed on the following link; Parenting Through Separation Guide and has been launched during Good Divorce Week, an annual initiative by the family justice organisation Resolution to raise awareness of how families can separate amicably.
“We know that the pandemic has put huge pressure on families and even more so on those who are separating. Every parent wants to put their children’s interests front and centre, but all too often they don’t know where to turn for help and aren’t given the support they need in order to do this.
“It’s important for parents to have access to good, authoritative and professional advice that helps them to parent responsibly through their separation. We hope all local separating parents will use the “Parenting Through Separation Guide”, to help them find a better way forward for them, and for their children.”
The free guide is available to any parent seeking help during their separation. It contains advice about how to co-parent with a former partner, background on the common disputes that arise between separating parents, and how to talk to children about the painful topic of divorce or separation, plus much more.
Juliet Harvey, national chair of Resolution, said:
“I’m really pleased to have Helen’s support during Good Divorce Week. Resolution members like her, do really important work in their community to help families separate in a constructive and amicable way. The more families know about and use the free “Parenting Through Separation Guide”, the better equipped they will be to navigate the challenges divorce and separation brings, particularly when it comes to putting children first.”
Here’s an extract of advice contained within the guide:
Top tips for discussing divorce with your children
- If your situation allows, try to have a joint conversation when all of your children are present. Keep this age appropriate.
- Plan a series of conversations, including different follow up conversations, if your children are different ages. Be mindful that their reactions will depend on their age, developmental stage and their individual personality.
- Reassure your children that it is okay to feel sad or scared and showing emotion is good. They can always talk to either of you and ask questions.
- Remember you are a role model and your children are watching how you manage this situation. If they see that you are still their parents, making decisions together about them, then they will cope better.
- Good Divorce Week takes place between 29 November – 3 December and this year’s theme is Parenting Through Separation.
- Resolution is a membership association of 6,500 family justice professionals promoting a non-confrontational approach to resolving family issues and campaigning for a fairer family justice system.
- Resolution members commit to a Code of Practice that promotes a constructive approach to family issues and considers the needs of the whole family, in particular the best interests of children.